2/21/07

Beberapa kata-kata hikmah tentang ’persahabatan’ ( Dari Almarhum Buya HAMKA ) yang dipetik dari buku ’Falsafah Hidup”


1. Persahabatan adalah satu-satunya pintu kemerdekaan kita. Banyak perkara yang tak dapat kita nyatakan kepada isteri kita sendiri sekalipun, tetapi dapat dinyatakan kepada sahabat. Sebab itu persahabatan yang jujur itu adalah salah satu dari tangga kejayaan

2. Supaya engkau beroleh sahabat, hendaklah engkau sendiri cekap buat menjadi sahabat orang

3. Sahabatmu suka kepadamu, tetapi tidaklah tiap-tiap orang yang suka kepadamu itu sahabatmu

4. Kesenangan hidpmu memperbanyakkan teman, tetapi pateri persahabatan yang setia adalah diwaktu menempuh kesukaran

5. Yang semulia-mulia kewajipan bersahabat ialah supaya engkau ketahui kehendak dan kemahuan sahabatmu sebelum dikatakannya. Dan engkau perkenankan permintaannya sebelum dimintanya.

6. Kalau jadi sahabat orang ramai, tidak boleh jadi sahabat orang seorang

7. Kalau sahabatmu tertawa, hendaklah dikatakannya apa sebab dia senang; kalau sahabatmu menangis, engkau mesti periksa apa sebab dia susah

8. Jika engkau memeberikan sesuatu kepada sahabatmu, bererti memeberikan kepada dirimu sendiri

9. Pengubat jerih hidup manusia adalah dua, pertama; Iman kepada Allah, kedua; percaya kepada sahabat

10. Bila orang telah merasa dirinya besar, dia lupa akan salahnya. Hanya sahabat yang setia yang sanggup membukakan matanya.

11. Teman yang ’ berudang di balik batu’ terhadap engkau adalah seumpama anjing di tepi jalan, yang ditujunya hanyalah tulang yang akan dilemparkan kepadanya, bukan tangan yang melemparkan tulang itu

12. Cemburu perempuan kepada perempuan, memutuskan tali persahabatan

13. Bila seorang perempuan telah sudi menghulurkan tangan persahabatan kepadamu, alamat bahawa umurmu telah lepas dari zaman bercinta.

36 comments:

Aqil Fithri said...

salaam~
saya juga suka HAMKA. untaiannya sering menyejukkan ---> semacam Al-Banna. malah, HAMKA merupakan antara ulama' yang teruji.

mundarmandir2 said...

salam..
betul!..HAMKA begitu dekat di hati umat islam Malaysia

Anonymous said...

Saya telah baca buku Falsafah Hidup ini. Yang peliknya, segala yang tertulis di dalam buku ini memang benar-benar terjadi pada hari ini. Pelikkan... Seorang penulis yang menulis lebih kurang 25 tahun lepas, meramalkan benda-benda yang sedang terjadi di ketika ini. Contohnya: remaja perempuan yang memakai baju nampak pusat! Pelikkan!

mundarmandir2 said...

anon..
tidak lah terlalu pelik sekiranya kita sedar bahawa di akhir zaman, macam-macam perkara yang tidak terlintas difikiran kita pun akan berlaku..telah banyak yang dinyatakan dalam Al-quran dan hadis..

Centrina said...

Terima kasih atas perkongsian ilmu... banyak yang menyentuh hati tentang persahabatan dari HAMKA

faizal said...

Centrina

Hamka mmg seorang individu mulia yang unik dan hebat pernah dimiliki oleh nusantara..

NOR RAUDAH HJ SIREN said...

Salam..
Persahabatan tu nilainya terlalu tinggi dan murni. Ia melibatkan perasaan yang ada dalam diri. Kekadang ada rahsia yang dikongsi sedangkan suami dan adik-beradik sendiri tidak tahu sesuatu rahsia itu....

Anonymous said...

Hamka kata-katanya penyejuk hati...=)

Tipa said...

Saya berminat untuk membaca Buku Falsafah Hidup karya Almarhum Buya Hamka tentang sebuah pershabatan di antara guru dan muridnya... Adakah terdapat adab2 yang perlu dilestarikan pada kehidupan hari ini? adakah tembok pemisah antara keduanya? adakah hukum yang tidak membolehkan guru yang dianggap mulia bersahabat dengan muridnya?

Tipa said...

maksud saya adakah terdapat falsafah mengatakan guru/kiyai tidak boleh bersahabat dengan murid di dalam Buku Falsafah Hidup berkenaan. Terima Kasih

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